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Thanksgiving Week Challenge

(Disclaimer:  If some of this sounds familiar, it's because pieces of it were borrowed from last year's post.)

Thanksgiving will be here soon!  That means that we're all busy planning our menus and making our grocery lists and readying our tables.  Most of us will gather with family and friends and eat amazing, comfort food until our belts need loosening.  Let us not forget in this season of thankfulness the many who will not be joining us in our overindulgence. 


World hunger statistics are sobering, to say the least.  I like this video because it uses the numbers to get our attention rather than the emotionally evocative images involved with so many of the world hunger videos we've been subjected to over the years.   One child dies hungry every 6 seconds.  Now that's sobering.  How many children would that be during just our Thanksgiving meal alone? 

As our family met to discuss how we wanted to approach feeding the hungry this holiday, I mentioned this statistic to Girl 1.  She just looked at me and started slowly counting as the tears welled up in her eyes. 

I don't mean to be a downer this holiday.  I do mean to challenge you to do something about the plight of the needy.  So, I'm doing what the video asks of me and telling a friend (who will hopefully tell a friend who will hopefully tell a friend, etc.). 

Our family plans to do our part this season by donating to Bread for the World.  We plan to raise the money for this the same way we did last year.  And, you can do it, too -- without even having to reach into your pocketbook (what is a pocketbook exactly?  Does anyone even really use one?)  You want to know how, don't you?  Well, lean in.  And promise not to tell MeeMee that we plan to do it again this year.  Promise?  Okay.

We plan to eat Ramen noodles every night for a week.  The grocery money saved will be donated and help to feed others.  We do this in an attempt to better understand the plight of the hungry.  Now, rice and beans would be a much more appropriate meal if we were trying to eat the way most of the hungry world eats.  But, my kids won't eat rice and beans.  They just won't.  And, contrary to what MeeMee seems to believe, we do plan to feed our kids this week.  (Bless her, she's only got their  best interests at heart!)  We choose Ramen because it's about the cheapest thing I can think of to feed us that we will all eat.  Also, it probably pretty closely approximates the way our closest hungry neighbors eat. 

Why the same thing every night of the week?  When you're truly hungry, food diversity is a luxury you do not have.  You eat what is available, and often it's the same thing . . . over and over again.

The week leading up to Thanksgiving seems a fitting time to undergo this challenge and prayerful focus.  So, we will begin this coming Wednesday and continue until the following Tuesday, two days prior to Thanksgiving.  (Ideally, we would run it right up through Wednesday, the day before the holiday, but it just doesn't fit our schedule this year.)  To focus our mealtimes on the task at hand, we will begin each of our seven evening meals together with a special prayer.  (This was my favorite part last year!) Here are links to the beautiful prayers we intend to use this year.

Wednesday -- Sharing our Abundance
Thursday -- That We May Be Satisfied
Friday -- Prayer of Confession
Saturday --  May I Hunger Enough
Sunday -- Traditional Native American Prayer
Monday and Tuesday (this link contains two separate prayers) --  Prayers at the Table

Will you join with us?  Put your own spin on it.  Eat something else.  Or, don't change the way you eat at all but click on the prayers when you sit down to the table each night and join with us as we pray for the hungry of our world.

Let Us Ponder a Shocking Statistic

In John Pilger's book, Freedom Next Time, he writes:  "On September 11, 2001, while the world lamented the deaths of 2,974 innocent people in the United States, the UN Food and Agricultural Organisation reported that another daily mortality rate continued:  36,615 children had died from the effects of extreme poverty."

36,615.  A day.  Everyday.

What are you doing about it?

What am I?

Hmmmm.

Blessing Bags

I know, I know, "do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing" and all that, but this is just too good not to share.

I found the idea for Blessing Bags on Pinterest (ahh, Pinterest).  The idea is that you put together bags of goodies that someone homeless or otherwise in need might beneift from.  Then, you keep one in the glove compartment of your car at all times so that when you encounter someone asking for help, you always have one handy. 

I introduced the idea to the kids at a family meeting, and they loved it!  We then tried to think about what it would be like not to have a house to sleep in or money in our pockets.  What kind of things would we really like to have that we could possibly fit into a gallon-sized baggie?

They came up with lots of great ideas.  Here's everything we put into our baggies:

toothbrush and toothpaste in travel case
chapstick
gum
tissues
bandages
granola bars
snack crackers
soap
comb
hand sanitizer
deodorant
cough drops
a five dollar bill
Here, the girls are working to assemble the bags.  Little Boy (not pictured) was very much a part, as well.
We put together a total of 10 bags-- one went into the glove compartment.  The other 9 will wait in the closet for their turn. 
We shopped the dollar store for lots of the items (2 packs of hand sanitizer, 8 packs of tissue, etc.) then filled in the rest with stuff from Wal-mart. 
Not including the five-dollar bill, each bag cost us approximately $5.90 --money well spent, if you ask me.

Today's kids, in general, seem to have a real bad case of "the gimmes."  Because we don't have TV at our house (and thus, no commercials), I think we escape a good deal of that throughout the year.  But, Christmas season has a way of bringing those selfish desires out of even the most good-hearted kiddos.  That's part of why I love this activity.  It asks kids to figuratively step out of their comfy house, give up their warm dinner, and embody someone else.  They get some very nice lessons in what it is to show love to others, see beyond the self, and differentiate between wants and needs.

What do you think?  Have you done something similar?  Can you think of anything else that would be great to add to the bags?

Christmas Traditions that I Treasure

Each year for Christmas, the kids each select gifts for their siblings.  The gifts are small in monetary value but big on thoughtfulness (and personally wrapped by each child ;)   To keep these gifts from getting just lumped in with the Santa gifts, we open these on a different day and usually try to make them the first gifts of the season that we open.  I love that the kids are more eager to give their gifts than they are to open.  
This quiet time together as a family has come to be one of my favorite Christmas traditions. 
And why not?
We get to experience expressions of pride like this one, as Girl 1 watched her little sister unwrap her carefully-selected gift .  .  .



and expressions of complete surprise and joy upon opening said gift . . .




and then big "thank you" hugs that take them both to the floor in giggles.

So each child ended up with a gift from each sibling and a pair of pajamas from Mom and Dad to wear on Christmas Eve.



John and I gave each other new running shoes.  I definitely look more excited, but I'm pretty sure he liked his, too.


Girl 2 and Daddy are hard at work on the LEGO monster truck she received from Little Boy.

Each year we do this I have the same thought:  this is enough. 

After just this small gift exchange, we had Barbies, LEGOS, trains, fuzzy armbands, craft projects, and coloring pages.  The kids were entertained for the rest of the evening.

And yet, this is only the beginning. 

Santa will come.  They'll get gifts from grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, great-grandparents, Sunday School teachers, neighbors, etc..  I'm not saying that I wish to deprive my kids of all those gifts (or the givers the joy that comes from giving), but I am saying that's it's nice to have this small yearly reminder that it's all unnecessary.  Our kids were both delighted and entertained tonight.  But, more than that, they each take away a bit more from an experience like this than the 2 toys and pair of PJs they received.  They got to experience what it feels like to both love and be loved well.  What more could we ask of a Christmas gift exchange?

What holiday traditions do you most enjoy with your families?

Take Action Against Hunger

Thanksgiving is only a week away.  That means that we're all busy planning our menus and making our grocery lists and readying our tables.  Most of us will gather with family and friends and eat amazing, comfort food until our belts need loosening.  Let us not forget in this season of thankfulness the many who will not be joining us in our overindulgence. 


World hunger statistics are sobering, to say the least.  I like this video because it uses the numbers to get our attention rather than the emotionally evocative images involved with so many of the world hunger videos we've been subjected to over the years.   One child dies hungry every 6 seconds.  Now that's sobering.  How many children would that be during just our Thanksgiving meal alone? 

As our family met to discuss how we wanted to approach feeding the hungry this holiday, I mentioned this statistic to Girl 1.  She just looked at me and started slowly counting as the tears welled up in her eyes. 

I don't mean to be a downer this holiday.  I do mean to challenge you to do something about the plight of the needy.  So, I'm doing what the video asks of me and telling a friend (who will hopefully tell a friend who will hopefully tell a friend, etc.). 

Our family plans to do our part this season by donating to Action Against Hunger.  This non-profit has received great ratings related to how great a percentage of donations actually go where we intend.   They feed, provide access to clean water, provide medical care, and teach sustainable farming practices. 

So, enjoy your sweet potato casserole.  I certainly intend to.  But, as you gather 'round the table and offer your prayers of thanksgiving, perhaps whisper a prayer for the less fortunate and do what you can to remember them in their plight this season.

Heifer International on Goats

We love to peruse the pages of the Heifer International gift catalog and see the various animals they are providing to people in various parts of the world.  It's only been since we've brought our goats home, though, that I've realized the full potential of the gift of a goat.


According Heifer International, the amazing organization that provides farm animals and animal husbandry education to struggling communities:

"Goats can thrive in extreme climates and on poor, dry land by eating grass and leaves. The gift of a dairy goat can supply a family with up to several quarts of nutritious milk a day - a ton of milk a year. Extra milk can be sold or used to make cheese, butter or yogurt. Families learn to use goat manure to fertilize gardens.
Goats often have two or three kids a year making it easy for Heifer recipients to pass on the gift of a goat to another family in need. This great investment allows our partners to lift themselves out of poverty by starting small dairies that earn money for food, health care and education."

For $120 you could provide a dairy goat for a family in need.  Can't do $120?  Consider buying a share of a goat for only $10.  Click here to see how.  Or, you could do what I'm doing and just stash away $10 a month so that by the end of the year, you can give a family the gift of a goat for Christmas.  :)


"With all the money donated to help fight famine around the world, with all the grandiose plans conceived to conquer poverty, sometimes all it takes to save a child is a goat."
— 60 Minutes, CBS News Magazine Program

I'm Expecting . . .

 Yep, I'm expecting . . . God to do something pretty amazing in my local community. (Now, don't be mad about the shameless ploy to get you to click on the link.  I just really wanted everyone to hear about this!)

 Here's a riddle for you:  Who is better poised to minister to the needs of a community than a local church? 

The answer:  THE local church, meaning not one community church but ALL of them, working together toward a common goal.  I am so proud to be a part of  The Bethany Project, a new mission, uniting local churches to minister to the needs of our community.  I love to see churches working together to accomplish God's commandment to love Him by loving others and feel blessed to be serving as our church's representative.

The Bethany Project, founded in honor of Bethany Roebuck Etheridge, seeks to provide love, hope, and care to our community through various missions.  First, we are hosting Hello Baby, which will be held on June 2.  On this day, anyone in need can come to First Baptist Church and stock up on baby items free of charge. Donations to stock the event are being accepted now at all area churches.  Items we are collecting include the following:

new or gently used children's clothing, sizes birth-5T, diapers, diaper bags, baby wipes, baby shampoo, baby powder, baby lotion, etc, baby blankets, crib sheets, baby laundry detergent,  baby bottles (basically anything "baby.")

If you live locally and would like to donate, you can drop off items at a participating church or drop them on my doorstep.  :)  We are accepting donations through May 27th.  If you live further away but would like to be a part of what's going on here, you could make a monetary donation that I could use to fill in the gaps once I see what we need more of before June 2. 

Later this year, The Bethany Project will be hosting missions to provide school supplies and coats to those in need. 

Now, as for the title of this post. . .  (With my right hand in the air,) I do hereby solemnly swear not to title any future blog post with this title unless it bears the exciting news which you would expect to discover therein.  ;)